Teenage Indipendence

"Sometimes, it is a fact that the time when we care more of ourselves is when we become independent. There is also the other fact that we care less of ourselves when we have someone to depend on. And what I mean about that is about our parents."

Do you get the feeling of being lazy when your parents are around the house? And then you start to care about your surroundings when there's no one around, the feeling that you Are the man in the house. Well That my friend is Independence. Defining Independence means free of will, having the freedom to do anything we want rather that being held against our will. And having those qualities. We often make mistakes, then learn from it. I've heard that 20 out of 25 parents most likely don't trust their children on their actions. Now I know maybe some of you have very strict parents. And so am I. I'm addressing this to the teenagers. Don't you just want to escape from your parents' hands and live the life you've always wanted? Well lucky for some who has. But I tell you, If you always get what you want. In the end, you will be left begging on someone's doorsteps. That is why there must be discipline. In somewhat way you will learn how to be independent.

Maybe if you ask your parents now when will you become free?(ahahaha I love to use that word) I'm sure they will be saying the same word, "not now". You might become mad and impatient all the way but getting back. Don't be jealous of those who might have that free will of getting out, partying, drinking booze( not that I drink hard). Maybe some kids out there gets into juvi who nows. Don't regret having strict parents. They know best and loves you so much they are protecting you. You are lucky enough not to end up being broke and not having all those you've taught from other people. Let's say the way to get Teenage independence is to do everything in the name of love! Ahahahaha... Just do what you think is right and what makes you really happy which must be also right. Being free is having no regrets or shame in what you do in your everyday life. You are at peace with yourself, to others and most especially to God. How can you do it? Just do simple random acts of Kindness to anyone such as helping your mom prepare for breakfast, being positive and say "it's gonna be a NEW DAY" every time you wake up or just even giving respect to someone by listening and understanding what he/she is telling you . And Lastly, Doing what is right and just clearly makes you happy because there's a sense of completeness in what you have done, and that you know that if you make someone happy, you'll be happy too. Like that, and because you are better than those people...(~^~) WANNA DO THE LOVE DARE? It doesn't mean you need a wife or a husband to do the love dare. You can do it to your parents,friends,teachers or to anybody. THAT IS WHAT LOVE DARE IS ALL ABOUT RIGHT? Doing everything in the name of love, IN A RIGHT SENSE OF COURSE... =))